I’m done pretending I like this
Look, I’m gonna be honest here. I’m over it. I’m done pretending that I’m okay with the state of streaming services and what it’s doing to us as viewers. It’s been about three months since I had this realization, and I’m still kinda pissed about it.
It started last Tuesday, actually. I was trying to watch this new show everyone’s talking about—let’s call it ‘Marcus’s Masterpiece’—on one of those big streaming platforms. You know the one, the purple one. The one that’s always recommending shows about knitting and WWII documentaries after you watch one crime drama.
So there I am, 11:30pm, ready to unwind. I hit play, and what do I get? A loading spinner. And not just any loading spinner, no, this one’s got a little message: ‘Just a moment…’ Which, honestly, is the most passive-aggressive thing I’ve seen since my ex told me he needed ‘space’.
I sat there, staring at my screen, willing it to buffer faster. I checked my internet connection—214 Mbps, thanks very much. I closed other tabs, apps, everything. Still, nothing. Just that damn spinner and its smug little message.
And that’s when it hit me. We’ve become a society of impatient idiots. We expect everything instantly, and when we don’t get it, we freak out. It’s not the streaming services’ fault, not really. It’s us. We’re the problem.
But here’s the thing—it’s not just about buffering. It’s about the sheer volume of content out there. It’s about the algorithm that thinks because I watched one rom-com, I suddenly need a daily dose of romantic comedies from the 90s. It’s about the way we binge-watch three seasons in one weekend and then can’t remember the names of the characters, let alone the plot.
I brought this up with my friend Dave over coffee at the place on 5th. He’s a filmmaker, so I figured he’d have some insight. ‘It’s the committment issue,’ he said. ‘People don’t want to commit to a show anymore. They want to be able to drop it at any moment, pick it up again later, and not feel bad about it.’
Which… yeah. Fair enough. But is that really living? Is that really how we wanna spend our time? Jumping from one thing to the next, never really giving anything a fair shot?
And don’t even get me started on the way these services treat their content. Remember when Netflix used to be the cool kid on the block? The one with all the shows and movies no one else had? Now it’s just another corporate giant, buying up everything in sight and then pulling it off the platform because they can. It’s like they’re playing a game of musical chairs with our favorite shows, and we’re just supposed to deal with it.
I mean, look at what happened with ‘Friends’. One day it’s there, the next it’s gone, and we’re all left scrambling to find it somewhere else. It’s like they’re testing our loyalty, seeing how far they can push us before we finally say ‘enough’.
But here’s the thing—we’re not gonna say ‘enough’. Because as much as we complain, as much as we rage-tweet about buffering and algorithms and disappearing shows, we’re still gonna sign up for another streaming service. We’re still gonna binge-watch that new series everyone’s talking about. We’re still gonna be impatient idiots.
So what’s the solution? I’m not sure but maybe we need to take a step back. Maybe we need to remember that it’s okay to watch one episode a week. It’s okay to take a break, to watch something else, to not finish a show. Maybe we need to remember that it’s not about the quantity of content we consume, but the quality.
And maybe, just maybe, we need to start holding these streaming services accountable. We need to demand better algorithms, better buffering, better treatment of their content. We need to remember that we’re the customers, and we deserve better than this.
I’m not saying it’s gonna be easy. I’m not saying we’re gonna see changes overnight. But we have to start somewhere. We have to start having these conversations, start pushing back against the status quo. Because if we don’t, who will?
So here’s my challenge to you—next time you’re about to start a new show, take a breath. Ask yourself if you really wanna watch it, or if you’re just watching it because it’s there. Ask yourself if you’re okay with the way streaming services treat their content, or if you’re ready to demand better. Ask yourself if you’re ready to be more than just an impatient idiot.
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Anyway, that’s enough from me. I’m gonna go watch something. Probably not on a streaming service, though. Maybe I’ll finally watch that DVD I’ve been meaning to get to.
About the Author
Hi, I’m Alex Carter. I’ve been writing about entertainment for what feels like forever. I started out as a film critic for a small newspaper in Austin, and now I’m here, sharing my thoughts with you. I’m passionate, opinionated, and I’m not afraid to say what I think. I also make a mean margarita, but that’s a story for another time.
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